Sunday, January 9, 2011

Part 2: Questions About Heaven And My Child

 I often receive emails (at A New Journey) asking if I would share information I find regarding mediums. This is part two of several articles on the subject. The following questions and answers are written by Concetta Bertoldi, author and medium....

DO THE LIVING HAVE CERTAIN ILLNESSES TO TEACH US CERTAIN LESSONS?
I do think that is the case,
but it's certainly not the same lesson for every person with the same disease. And sometimes the lesson is more for, or also for, the individuals surrounding the person who is ill. It's a network of shared experiences, challenges, and learning. A serious illness does not just strike someone randomly.

One thing I want to be very clear about it that an illness is never retribution for anything we did or didn't do. God is a loving God and does not mete out punishment of pain and suffering. Whatever happens to the soul, the soul has agreed to allow it in order to gain a deeper consciousness unobtainable in any other way.

The soul will not know every detail in advance of what we will go through, what turn the experience may take. And I would by lying to say that there is never a time when in the midst of the experience the soul was not wishing he could change his mind and opt out.

There is no illness on the Other Side,
so without experiencing it here they cannot possibly understand how blessed we truly are when we are with God. The fact that a soul makes this choice for spiritual growth is very different from what some have called "blame the victim," which I've heard a lot about when someone who doesn't really understand how this all works will say, 'so-and-so caused his own illness" or "it's her karma."

WHEN SOMEONE TELLS HIS PARENTS, "I DIDN'T ASK TO BE BORN," ACCORDING TO THE OTHER SIDE, IS THIS TRUE OR NOT?
I believe from what I've been told
that we all choose our parents, but that we do get some direction from the Other Side, it's a collective decision based on how the soul can best help over here and grow spiritually. We are born to the right people and in the right circumstances to let this life's purpose unfold through our free will and our different choices and actions. In every situation, we choose. We come here knowing to whom we'll be born, that there will be a lesson (or probably more than one!) that we will be confronted by, and/or make a contribution to. We will also be expected to help others who are also coming here. It is our choice to come here: where, when, and to whom. It's all a combination of decisions made with God and our guides on The Other Side.

WHY WOULD SOMEONE HAVE A SHORT LIFE?
Usually when we come thru
this world it is to learn something. But I believe in these cases it is to teach something. Without a doubt, a mission like that would not be given to anyone other than a very advanced or Master spirit. I can't really speak to motivation. I have to assume that a soul who has evolved to that point has a much larger understanding than we have, and the importance would not have to be explained to it.
-submitted by Marsha Abbott

Part 3 contains Concetta's answers to the questions: Why do some people live to an old age and others die young? What is the benefit of discovering the truth about Heaven/The Other Side?...and more.

*Note: These are the opinions of medium Concetta Bertoldi (pictured). She consults regularly with member os Britain's royal family, American celebrities, politicians, and others. Her practice has a two-year waiting list. She lives in New Jersey with her husband.


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