There is no way to aptly describe what it is like to receive a phone call with news that your child has been killed. There is an instant when you think you are dead too; when you beg God to 'fix it' or to let you change places with her. There is no way to describe the feeling of not being able to say goodbye, to realize that your last conversation with her was really your LAST conversation with her. I've described much of that feeling in a blog I dedicated to Molly titled: My Big Red Shoe.
They tell us there are stages of grieving and I believe they are right. At some point we all go through varying degrees of them. The sad truth is there will never be a finish line. Shock, anger, dark despair, isolation, depression can and will manifest themselves in some fashion. Somewhere along the way I realized that choices had to be made. The search for hope became a daily goal. Without it I knew I would fall into a deeper darker place. Faith needed reinvestigation, life required a new perspective and a new journey began.
I wish you peace if you are travelling this road. I believe the spirit of our daughter, Molly, surrounds us and that she watches us from heaven. May the light of hope shine in your heart like the love you have for the child you brought into this world. May you find your way along this journey and discover your own light. May your friends and loved ones provide support and care, and whether you travel this road alone or with support.... may you discover a strength you never knew you had. Peace and blessings, ~Marsha
In Memory of our daughter Molly (10/4/89 - 9/27/09).
She was a huge light in our family. Let the light of her love, humor and fun continue to shine.... and help us to do our best to share that light with others.
She was a huge light in our family. Let the light of her love, humor and fun continue to shine.... and help us to do our best to share that light with others.
Our children are not gone; their ship just sailed before ours.
They'll be there to greet us.
What we do in memory of our children
has the energy of love attached to it.
The ways in which we give to others (volunteer, help to raise money for causes, speak, etc) will share that love with the world.
has the energy of love attached to it.
The ways in which we give to others (volunteer, help to raise money for causes, speak, etc) will share that love with the world.
Give. ♥
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